Q&A: Healing from Rejection & Finding Your Identity

Open Talk Service—Croissant and Chat around the Cross

During the latest 3Cs gathering (Cross – Conversation – Croissant), many voices came together in a rich and varied chorus: testimonies about God’s unique love for each person, encouragement to carry others in prayer, teachings on the difference between the “Spirit of God” in the Old Testament and the Holy Spirit who dwells in believers today, as well as practical answers to profound questions such as inferiority complexes, rejection, the meaning of prayer within God’s sovereign plan, and the parable of the ten virgins.
Through these exchanges, both theological and practical, one common thread emerged: faith is deeply personal, yet it also draws its strength from community. The various teachings invite believers to better understand their identity in Christ, to allow the Word to enlighten and transform them, and to nurture their spiritual life through reading and prayer. Through the testimonies and reflections, there is also an invitation to welcome God’s work into every dimension of life.

  • Questions and answers

Answer : Never despise a prophecy, for it comes from the Holy Spirit, even if it comes through the mouth of a man.

Make sure that the person who prophesied is a true man of God, honest and without occult practices. Pray without ceasing, give thanks to God for the word you have received, and be careful never to extinguish the spirit of God in you. (1 Th 5 : 17-20) If prophecy calls you to change your course (e.g., to live an apostolic life, to renounce debauchery, or to work on your sanctification), act immediately; otherwise, the prophecy will not be fulfilled. Remember that "open" prophecies depend on our obedience, while "closed" prophecies will be fulfilled regardless of our attitude.

Answer: True humility is a voluntary decision to strip oneself and serve, like Jesus, who became a servant, whereas lack of self-esteem comes from an inner wound, fear, and rebellion.

Humility is accompanied by obedience, controlled power, and a search to serve others, while low self-esteem breeds shame, inability to act, and a tendency to rebel. A humble heart retains the feelings of Jesus and chooses to place itself on the level of the servant, even when he possesses wealth or status.

Answer: God gives the dream to one person and sometimes the interpretation to another; it is not necessary to interpret oneself.

Write the dream immediately, never interpret it personally, and take it to a pastor or someone who has the gift of interpretation. Leaving the dream without personal interpretation avoids mistakes that can create family or spiritual problems.

Answer : The perfect will is clearly found in the Bible, produces a deep peace in the heart, and is confirmed by a concrete manifestation of God.

If the direction sought is not written, does not give peace, or is not confirmed by a divine sign, it is probably permissive will, reserved for rebels. Waiting for God's confirmation, praying, reading the Scriptures, and checking inner peace are the keys to discerning the perfect will.

Answer : It is possible to work with the family as long as there are clear rules, responsibilities and professional boundaries.

The family relationship should not influence business decisions; each person should be chosen for their skills and character, not simply for their blood relationship. The Christian must behave with integrity, honesty, and justice in his work, and he reserves the right to dismiss a family member who does not respect the established framework.

Answer : The first step is to anchor oneself firmly in God's Word, for biblical truth destroys despair.

An intensive prayer life, such as the two-hour night vigils, opens the eyes to the truth of God and frees us from the impression of dice. Acknowledging that God does not "show favoritism» any person, but grants the samegrace to all believers, allows us to rebuild a healthy and trusting identity.

Réponse : No. Flirting implies light, fleeting, non-committal lovemaking, which is considered the sin of levity. Le chrétien doit viser des relations sérieuses, fondées sur la foi et la fidélité

The words spoken that day were not merely slogans; they were declarations of truth calling for action. By recognizing that salvation and God’s love are personal, relying on the power of the Holy Spirit to separate soul from spirit, and confronting feelings of inferiority through meditation on the Word, each reader can experience genuine transformation.
Whether you are facing a fear of rejection, seeking spiritual direction, or simply looking for a supportive community, the teachings shared during the Conversation offer practical tools:

  • Identify each morning the specific needs God has for you.

  • Nourish your spirit through daily Scripture reading rather than through superficial answers found on the Internet.

  • Participate in communion as a tangible reminder of the sacrifice of the Cross, the source of your victory.

By putting these principles into practice, you will not simply keep these words in your mind; you will live them. Let these messages resonate, take root in your heart, and bear fruit: inner peace, renewed confidence, and a life that reflects the “unique love” God has already given you.

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